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Friday, May 11, 2007

Marriage-An eternal Bliss????

Well...this weekend i attended my cousin brother's marriage in behala...my basic intentions for going there were my parents who basically had come over....i knew i was never going to have a gala time out there but yes...we did have a lot of fun.
This cousin brother of mine is an early 30's guy who has just become a doctor and due to his age was married to a girl from Haripal which is basically on the outskirts of West bengal....its a sort of a village with little bit of urbanisation.
The girl is just 24 yrs of age and she looks very sweet and homely but bcos of a huge difference in the status i found that this marriage might not be very successful in the long run....Lot of issues are there(sorry for the IT language)
I had a few other cousins there who were also there and we enjoyed most of the time but sometimes seeing that the guy gettin married was to desperate to have some private moments with the girl....pissed me off sometimes. he used to drive my younger cousin sister's away just to have a sneak in her room for the forbidden day in which according to the customs one is not allowed to see the girl.
if he would have asked in a better way all of us wld have helped surely...but......
So is marriage all about SEX....i think not....its a lot more meaningful than that....Its not just a ceremony or a nite where u have the license for free sex but its something in which 2 pll get united with a soul and 2 bodies.....Lets face it......Its the best moments in 2 persons life....so live it with Glory

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey Sudi...Its a valued point that u have made...Mate watever I ll be scriibling down henceforth are exclusively my views...

To me,its a bond thats far from the comprehension of the vulgarity of paltry SEX...Its an occassion where two souls take the vow to be united n to share each each other's happiness n sorrows forever...It shud be the perfect blend of happiness,sacrifice,commitment,sharing...n many things that are too divine too put down in words...

So mate,its my call to say that SEX can never be the only criterion to tie the KNOT....

CHEERS ...

Sudipto said...

I knew ur views would be similar to mine....so wen u tying the knot?

~Moo-lah Buz!nezzz~ said...

its SEX....and SEX....and then lots and lots of SEX.....and then the orgies..the dominatrix's....and the reproduction.....sigh...yes!!...face it..thats marriage!!!!

:P

coffee stain said...

i have to agree....at first it is just sex....sorry to dissapoint.... men are actually shit scared of it... thats why they bring it down to sex...the only language most of us understand!

Sudipto said...

Nunku its not all about sex and u also know it dude,cos u also think aotherwise and rish says true...first time one does feel shit scared

dark angel said...
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coffee stain said...

first time....yeah....with no implications of a second time.... still dream of an ideal world..... who am i kiddin.....

dark angel said...

marriage is all bout,

SEX.... more SEX... a bit of fight wid ur SOLE MATE, bit of sleeping on the couch and back to more SEX( this time KINKY to take out the frustration of the fight and the couch), and ya above all liking ur neighbors wife more than ur's, bak to SEX to reduce the frustration..... and the cycle goes on....only the SEX part gradually keeps on decreasing :( ....

that's the bliss of marriage....
A Vry HappY MaRRieD LifE to U ALL

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